Question I asked the I Ching:
"What is causing my restlessness. What is at the root of my impatience and restlessness?"

Approximately 1 year ago I ended a romantic fling with a man. I wanted more of a commitment from him, but he was not interested in pursuing things beyond casual fun. Not only was this a huge blow to my ego, but it also caused a deep wound in my soul. I felt a connection to this person and to not have my feelings reciprocated was very difficult for me to handle.

In the past year I have undergone a huge transformation because of this. I am not the same person I used to be - I am so much better. I feel more alive and hopeful for the future. I have not dated anyone since him because I haven't felt ready to move on. Lately I've been feeling a nagging sensation inside of me...a feeling that I want something or that something is missing, but I don't know what it is yet.

I asked the I Ching "What is causing my restlessness. What is at the root of my impatience and restlessness?" I received hexagram 31 (unchanging). It's so clear that I'm looking for a romantic connection and intimacy (not just on the physical level.) What's more interesting, the next day I came across the following in a book I was reading: "Human beings yearn above all else for intimacy...Until we experience intimacy, our hearts remain restless, irritable, and disconnected." It's all crystal clear to me now.

DreamyAqua